I joined a year ago. I received loads of winks and messages from really pretty girls, made me feel good. I replied and most of the time heard nothing back. I began to question how I was coming across, the messages I sent were not offencive or weird so why don't these girls reply? If I did hear back then the message didn't address anything I'd written. When I let my membership slip I was sent special offers by singles.365 to rejoin, at the same time I'd receive winks/messages from really pretty girls. How stupid do I feel now. They are a scam, I can see that now. Ive joined match.com, recommended by a friend who has been on 5 dates in 4 months. I've wasted a year, I don't care about the money but I am pissed that for a year Ive doubted myself because these girls have not replied to my messages. Avoid at all costs.